Would you still judge her as nothing more than a whore or was she simply a victim of a horrible act and didnt know or wasnt able to get the help to properly handle it. Based on your comment I will assume you believe in GOD. She is the woman who gets stereotyped as a slut simply because she likes to fuck around. 1) difference between studs and hoes. Im not saying this is ok, or validating them telling a lie, but this is the reality. For some reason, people think that its only THEM that are having sex and anyone else who does is disgusting. I was promiscuous in 9th-10th grade. I agree with that statement, I do not agree that this is due to a high number of sexual partners. In a loving relationship, no divorce (or marriage) will ever be based on financial reasons. Right now though, I really do not think that the problem is the girl, or the potential relationship itself even. many issues that person will have from having sex with so many people. I told him his past is of no value to me as i love him and accept him for who and wht it has made him today and i just dream of a beautiful future and will work hard to make it work. Know why? Speaking of lazy, I have looked over the study which you were apparently too lazy to just hyperlink to yourself after being asked to twice https://www.jstor.org/discover/10.2307/3600089?uid=3739448&uid=2&uid=3737720&uid=4&sid=21102211994521 and the man is ESTIMATING his own word that the chances of marital dissolution go up for any woman who was not a virgin prior to marrying or cohabitating with her partner. I dont really care how many people she has been with within reason, however I do want to know what I am dealing with, and I would like to know whether she would be completely honest with me, IF I DESERVED IT! That does not mean you have to agree with it. There surely will be another at the Thats roughly a new guy each month. Tighter in actuality isnt always better. How very sad. This is just Like having a Second hand CAR on whom so many Drivers have been used that Car. *if you admit to regrets* which is the biggest of your life. contraception. & many more results. Now if the real reason you hold this against a woman is because you dont want to have to compete with the level of pleasure her past lovers provided, well you just need help then. My ex-husband of 7 years was very well endowed and my current significant other is very much under-endowed, but the sex is just as enjoyable, if not more so. Most often it takes more than two relationships to find your life partner. "Women tend to be more unhappy with the relationship they are in . If a woman was promiscuous and had sex with numerous men, she was a bad mate choice due to the fact that he may be mistakenly wasting his resources raising another mans child(ren). When we learn how to maximize on the other things you can still be a better lover than the man who may have been bigger. I am just as human as the next person and want to be treated as such. Furthermore, I think that guys that dont care about their partners i admit i do have trust issues but these men now days get around. Master Age: 48 , mho 32%. Do you expect that guys would find equally as desirable and attractive as a life partner the woman who has slept with 100 men, as the woman who has been with 8? Whos gonna stick around for that? Now lets imagine you want to buy a car and you go to the dealership and you see a car that you really like and the salesman tells you that the car that you feel is so beautiful and would make such a great addition to your life has 289,832 miles on it (NOTE: before the comments flow in about what if the car only had one previous owner, which Id be more than happy to discuss, for the sake of this article this is only to focus on the number of miles). Shadow Hunter-December 12, 2022. Posted August 24, 2015. This was probably written by a hoe. Im just happy you were open minded enough to actually read it again and see where I was coming from. So this woman never lied about anything. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Evaluate that person for who they are now, not who they were previously. Decisions determine who you are, end of story. So ..does it have something to do with how many men u have slept with??? Altamera74 your position on this matter is very clear. someone to come along and love you for who you are? Nowadays, everyone is playing games, and everyone will lose. . hide ourselves in does not preclude that: it is a make or break answer. I deserve better, and so would my children. I have seen women who had only slept with one man end up being loose while in a relationship. has slept with 4 guys or 20? Men spread seed and women try to attract the best seed they can find. Shadow Hunter-December 12, 2022. We all make mistakes, but many of us do learn from them and move in a better direction. Where is this done? So if your 30 and you had sex with 15 people, I say They say that all men are dogs, do not want relationships, and can not commit. Im not going to be in a relationship with someone I dont respect, and Im sure as hell not going to marry and make the mother of my children some floozy whos been with 50 people, been gang-banged, and allowed herself to be used like a piece of meat. Settle down with what she can. Can it work out with an ex a bit further down the line? And its not just about the numbers. The reality is that many people marry for the wrong reasons. The Era of female double standards is drawing to a close. I still think we shouldnt use the numbers as judgement because what happens to the woman who does not have a conflicting view with that man on relationships, yet she does have high numbers. And women can go a long way in updating the image of women in society. The amount of partners a person chooses to share themselves with sexually reflects on that persons character and values. social fabric as a nation. When we dont heal from our past and address our issues we will likely set ourselves up fro more problems later. Touch. Even an insects decides by way of judgment if it is to sting or bite youwhat world is being created here by thinking otherwise. Anyway, enough of that. Men have to go out to 10 women and hope 1 of them chooses him. If sex shouldnt be used to judge someone then nothing else about that persons past should be of any relevance because after all, theyre in the past. Some guys don't want something that was shared by several others. And if you married in your 30's so much for having a family. Perhaps you should actually, you know, read comments on the thread that you are responding to before making assumptions. She is a human being like a man is a human being. To bring you back to reality, realize that every man has both sides to this coin. reading this I can see that you only wrote this to make yourself believe that its OK you slept with a 100 guys . I swear, idiots..youre just being selfish. If a girl is promiscuous or has had behavior IN HER PAST showing lack of self-respect, self-esteem, integrity, etc., she can tell me she has changed all she wants, but shes blown her chance at a LTR with me, simply because plenty of women have the character to not do the things she did. Obsessed much? give detailed information it will stick in their mind for the rest of their Women have the choice to say, yup im gonna let this guy inside me. Wear and tear is evident on me too, example what if they give a woman an STDs that wear and tear hun. Men are different shapes and sizes therefore I beg to differ. Stephan, I am intrigued by your comment that you disagree that promiscuity is what has caused the highest divorce rate America has ever seen. There is a current trend not only in the U.S., but also in the UK called the marriage strike.A lot of men will not marry because of fear of divorce initiated by women who are unable to stay connected emotionally to their husbands (due to a high number of sexual partners) and therefore seek comfort else where. Love isnt about sex. She claimed that her promiscuity was in the past, but later on I found out it was still in her present. There are all kinds of reasons why things happen and who you were at one time doesnt necessarily mean you are the same person now. I always thought about meeting that one person and never wanted my sexual activity to come between us. Smh Of course Im gonna take the car with the less mileage on it. business trips while Jerry came over and played house with mommy, a understand that men careand crafty ones will attempt to figure out And I really wouldnt want one of the Town Tomcats as my husband or future father of my children either. I won't mind the number of partners if she is physically attracted to me. It just means that when a man meets a woman he has great interest in, he shouldnt walk away from that simply because she had high numbers in her past. At times, those emotions cause us to make poor decisions. Imagine if a man had zero partners before marriage, was told that her past was with a couple and they were small and terrible in bed, only to find out later that was a lie. and if she was a hoe before marriage who tells me that she will magically transform after it? My opinion, the past is what shapes us, it is how we use that and apply it to our future that defines us. It is expected of women to value themselves more highly then what we expect of men. Would you REALLY want to buy that car after you heard that? I do believe there are some women that simply enjoy sex, but I would by lying if I said i felt that the majority of women who are promiscuous are doing it simply because they love it. Redpill and PUA groups can't do that because their inherent premise is that women are lesser and that abusive action is acceptable toward them. Well sir, my past should not matter. If you don't respect her, don't date her. Inability to cope with stress, lack of problem solving skills, and an unwillingness to compromise would be the most likely culprits in such a situation. I think Id have to agree with Sharona. Its not right for one gender and wrong for the other. Men stand to lose their homes, assets and children even when they were the ones who honored their vows, to have and to hold, for better or worse. Men and women are different, in case you hadnt noticed. Judging right away could end up getting in the way of an opportunity to know a really great person. I dont play the who slept with who game. Youve literally dated so much that your idea of a great person is flawed. choosing to be selective in whom they sleep with. of your own lifestyle before you start handing out nasty questions or comments such as the one above. Marriage is a serious commitment intended to last a lifetime. Whether youre male or female, I dont think its fair to be judged on how many partners youve had. The article is discussing why the specific number should not matter when a man is choosing his partner and the fact that the woman she is today is not always the same woman she once was. Im also pretty sure she wants to be with me and nobody else at this pointon top of the fact that shes cried in front of me and feels super ashamed. If you arent proud of your number when I asked by a potential life partner, you could be a slut. The red pill community has this notion that women are lesser but I haven't seen that too much in the more toned down PUA community. What do her previous partners have to do with who she is today? I just still think we have to evaluate that person for who they are now, or in many cases just trust GOD if you feel he has told you this is the woman for you. Also if we take a spiritual perspective, then let me add that we all live in sin. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. The girl you date is not concerned about cooking for you. Ive broken hearts and have been burned myself. kidsbut things were crazy for me four years ago. We would also need to Having slept with others casually certainly doesn't mean that someone will cheat. That is one source, directly addressing the issue. I went through years thinking that sex was it and when I was in a relationship I was faithful and from what Ive heard one of the best girlfriends theyve had. Individuals must and should always attend to their home garden and not others. Dont assume her personality/morality based on her sexual history. the fire between them grows up again and they start f..ng silly like bunnies behind your back! So, I think it is a bad idea to encourage women to be promiscuous and to encourage men to date these women. Turns out he says he is still a virgin and is looking for a virgin wife. If you are a woman and you want to get married, you need to be smart about your dating. So to simply go off of the number is in my opinion a misguided approach to understanding the person you are dealing with. esp on the parent side of things. Serious question as this is a prob Im currently dealing withI met an amazing girl who I was 99% sure was my future wife. Now I will excuse most of the ignorant post below as I can appreciate that most of the beliefs that you all have that enraged me are based in religion, the way you were socialized, or etc. If i have to move out of town or state just so I dont have to deal with her many past smashes, then it aint worth it! You need both to function but then again so do women. If I find out that a woman I am dating has been a slut (based on my own personal definition since that is all that matter when Im choosing who to be in a relationship with), that disqualifies her from being in a serious relationship with me. Though there may be a difference in how/what constitutes standard for the individual. Unless you are interested in being swingers, your best bet would be to only get involved with someone who has a solid sense of morality. Yes I think waiting till marriage is the best thing to do is the second sentence in the article yet you seem to think I am discussing if it is ok to be promiscuous. Lets be serious. What girl will you marry? I feel sorry for whoever marries the likes of you. Thank you, Lord, for resurrecting from the dead. while, recklessly, and if I crash? If you Im hoping this article opens some eyes and gets people to start looking at all of this differently. As simple as that, why be ashamed or beat yourself up over a number if numbers didnt define a hoe then her actions would. While media still shames yet sells women. What do women do in the meantime? I know that might scare you, so you are reacting defensively, but its just the truth. As far as Im concerned, he is the only man I can get sexually aroused by. Here's a revelation: people are entitled to their own judgments. Embrace that, and keep your focus on why you love her today, not what she was before you ever even knew her. I KNOW that I am not missing out on anything. You say its not worth walking away from a woman you genuinely connect with. There are many women who dont give it up and are still disrespected by men they go out on dates with, even if they look good on paper. In the words of Dr Dre. ive slept with 14 guys and im still tight and ocasionally asked if im a virgin. If nothing else you As women and men i am very sure we have all made mistakes and hopefully learned from them as well. Most guys dont want to do that either. There is much I could say as to the real reasons why many men, possibly such as yourself, cannot deal with a woman who may have once been promiscuous in her past. (SN: The fact that someone would disclose embarrassing details about their past actually reveals that they have a sense of respect.). i must say im a hypocrite on this one. I dont think the number should matter, personally. Whereas for a woman to sleep around, she has risks of raising a child, she takes that risk when sleeping around even with contraception for her own emotional desires See more The woman can claim child support from the dad, and having a baby is a 2 way thing. And guess what? That's pretty low for a guy". This girl helped open my eyes to all sorts of fun ideas in and out of the bedroom. Am I saying that women that have what would be considered a large number of partners should be shunned? Its fucking difficult to deal with no matter how much you love them. Past DOES matter. Too many people use the fact that this woman has slept with a certain number a men that they personally deem too high as validation to dismiss this woman as a potential mate or a future great wife. You stated How you view intimacy, and love, and sex matters. well what holds more weight, their current view or their past views? I think you misunderstand the article, this is not an article to promote a womans right to be promiscuous. Even though men have the choice too without fame a lot of money a social status its a losing battle. If he never asks or she never gives him a specific number then I do not think we should put that in the same category as a cheating wife. can be decreased. That scares me more than anything else. If you two currently do not agree on those things, by all means walk away. Promiscuous men are notoriously psychopathic, selfish, and extremely narcissistic with a lot of emotional baggage. Being forced to settle for a woman who has been ridden like the town bike, and shared her body with dozens, if not hundreds of men is very weak, and very low-standard. Of course it is fair to judge people on the decisions they have made in life. But it seems like you want to get over those beliefs, because you recognize there is something wrong with them. amenities; whether it was in the far past or recent past. I see what you're saying about burning the toxic feelings and I agree 100% I want to get rid of them and out of this mindset very badly and even from what I've read thus far this thread and people input have helped me to frame my thoughts a lot. I completely understand where you are coming from Kabdog but I have to respectfully disagree. Some women are not the same person they once were and I think more weight should be place on who they are now, not who they once were. Make smart choice with who you choice to sleep with and protect yourself and if your going to be a hoe men or woman stick your chest out and be honest with people about your numbers and your mates you dont have to tell everyone. Gender is not a social conscript everyone. they resort back to their network of past sex partners, or start going Its more than you have. Sorry that I did not take the time to sift though all 240+ comments prior to posting my own. Just saying that people have been held accountable for their past since the beginning of time. If I was looking for a Woman, I DO care about her past, and she should care about mines. She is still the amazing woman you love and she can still function the same way she always has with you. It I will say that there are plenty reasons why it would be best for all to wait that can be applied to anybody regardless of their spiritual affiliation. However, for menthey are target-marketed like pigs in a pen. Start this quiz to find your result. First off you assume that a woman who has experience has slept with that many partners. They are always controlled and can never be trusted at all because they will get around and bang lots of men. And when your whore whoops I meant wife has a flashback during intercourse and screams calls out Kobe just know, she not cheering for the Lakers. Most men dont want to marry a person who is in effect a man with a vagina. This is because the kind of ppl who would say things like "dating a slut" view a woman sleeping with others casually as this terrible dirty thing. She fills out many of the red pill and general knowledge definitions of what a slut is. Very true, plenty of sluts attempt to hide their sluttiness through subterfuge, yet they inevitably give off tells. Evaluate that person for who they show you they are today, and the days ahead. Women are thought of being prudent and conservative. So know this, men will have their values, its just sad u will bypassed becos of it. We know that today we are faithful and happy. We all have a past & lol about the wear & tear comment. However, a girl can easily disqualify herself from consideration if her number reveals her to have lived life as a raging slut. It is the fact that you will hold this over someones head forever that I feel could use some rethinking. The commandment was and is for both genders of mankind. I like how you caught yourself on that : ). You cant turn a ho in to a housewife. And some women need to go through experiences to become the best women they could be. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. For a man on the African savannah, he looked for youth, health and fecundity (fertility). You are not. I do agree that this topic deserves a lot of attention because I think people on both sides of the arguement have something positive they can learn or take away from this. He is a very successful and attractive man so I know for a fact that he has been with many, many women so I think we both know to not bring up the topic. You can say no, no, no as much as you like and deny up and down till youre blue, but that still doesnt get the idea about a woman, out of a mans mind. Being sojudgmentalcan cause anyone to miss on on great things. A woman did not write this, this was written by a man. Saying that if you have good communication with her and can get a sense of her values maybe it can be worked out, I understand what you're trying to say, I think. So if u sleep with 5 guys u keep a part of them five guys with you for a long time. His name is Jesus Christ. Redirect your thoughts gently when they get off track, as if you were correcting a puppy. To ride is free. GOD absolutely knows more than I can ever imagine or begin to comprehend, but I think you are not properly receiving the message of this article. He settled down and married his partner, Gabriella Wesberry, in 2010, the same year that Simply Red broke up after two and half decades together. Therefore I believe a woman should be more selective in who she chooses. Then perhaps you also need to focus on the men who promote the idea that the only thing we have to hold over your heads is our sexuality, our ability to say yes or no to your advances, then maybe it will change. Im not condoning it but I think we should keep an open mind about it. I dont ever wonder what I missed out on, I know the answer is not much! I started at 18, averaged 2.78 a year. Im not going obsess over the fact that my numbers may be to high. Well written! I have experienced half truths, stories with too many holes in them, and when I confronted her about the inconsistencies in her stories regarding her past lovers, she fabricated more lies. Being promiscuous is bad for both men and women. Am a runs girl last month but now a millionaire today. Macho-ism still exists. A woman who has slept with 100 meninevitablyhas certain qualities of character, and inevitably has certain boundary issues, and inevitably has lower standards when it comes to who she allows access to her body. Sheila Saeung Jesus was a trouble maker, who got what he deserved. and no teenage girls are not by right suppose to stay virgins until you come along at some point in their lives lol. MANY women who love sex also have self-respect, and choose to save that wonderful sex for relationships, and loved ones. You just got the best husband around! Im not saying that the way I thought was right but being raped for 3 years by the same man and molested by someone else that loved you has its effects on your mind and heart. Times may have changed in some perspectives but evolution is a long process and these inbred instincts are deeply rooted which is why most men will have sex with a slutty girl, but will never marry or commit to her. These men typically have low self-esteem, cannot get better, are older and desperate, or simply have no other options. So I went out into the world thinking that everyone just wanted to enjoy themselves and be happy but I was so wrong. Ive been through it, luckily with no children involved, and Ive known others whove gone through. And yes, I enjoy educating the ignorant, such as yourself, on such topics. No, my perceptions are no more divorced from reality than yours, or those of anyone else. If she doesnt treat sex with respect then shes not going to consider it to be a big deal when she hooks up with someone else and leaves you wondering why you just wasted two years of your life with her. Im done now . I understand where you are coming from but we do not agree on this topic. I saw her the next day and asked why she acts like that toward me, and she said "BECAUSE YOU'RE UGLY". Wild oats = sewn. Tell me, what's the ideal number of people for your partner to have slept with before you? I am available to help have the discussion. He controls himself. Look into the galena rhoades study. (-_-)/. hint 2: dating highly sexual people simply involves better communication and actual adult emotional processing skills. I cant imagine the level of crazy one would have to be to think that not marrying the wrong person or before they know the implications of marriage is a bad thing, but hey, Im not you. The fact remains that the women with the lowest divorce rate in our liberal Western culture (not an alien culture or religion) are those who are more educated, higher income earners and marry later. I dont know why I feel hurtas i said, I believe people have the right to do what they want. However, there are exceptions to every rule. If it says anything its that she owns her own body and doesnt let herself be dictated by societys so-called morals. Its not about being flawless and perfect. Always be ready and willing to check in on how she feels in the relationship, and if she feels she needs or wants something different. you have issues so you didnt have problems with your wife introducing you to her exs and flirting with them..?? If you are dating with marriage in mind, it is important to look for qualities that would make someone a good life partner. 1. I agree with you completely, and applaud you for being able to be abstinent again. I dated a woman most wouldn't consider a beauty, but she was smart and funny and great in bed. I feel most people focus on the physical aspect of sex but overlook the mental and emotional aspect which plays an even bigger role in how good the sex can be. I have shops around Nigeria . It encourages an atmosphere of male entitlement. Its not good north bad. If you don't identify with this kind of perspective then what is it about her that you value? Depends on your age. It definitely plays a role for many people as to how they go about their sexual lives. on how people should behave with their bodies. Disappointed I decided to move on but I had to know what else she could be hiding. Yes some women can bond with a man after their promiscuity days, but how many divorces still occur? date girls who sleep around marry a girl who doesn't--thank me in 20 years when you still have your kids and wife living in the same house as you--2. I think you are not getting the point of this article. If she is what you need her to be, but then you find out she had X amount of partners, well that shouldnt override who she currently is. Just like that song in the 70s that said, so many men so little time how can they Choose. thought out and weighed heavily with her morals and standards. The idea behind waiting for marriage may have been feasible decades ago but that ideology is based in religion and if youre not a religious person what exactly are you waiting for? 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